Patrick, a 29-year-old transgender man, had both top and bottom surgeries at the tender age of twenty-three. But his journey includes more than just his transition; he also faced an unexpected life challenge.
Patrick’s Journey as a Trans Man
Patrick’s journey as a trans man was challenging, marked by trials and tribulations that most people would find difficult to comprehend. But he was resilient.
He held his head high, put on his armor, and faced each battle.
Patrick Finds Love
His perseverance paid off when two years post his surgeries, he met his then-girlfriend.
She Was a Year Younger Than Him
She was a year younger than Patrick and seemed mature and understanding for her age.
Truth and Openness
Being a firm believer in honesty, Patrick shared his truth with her right at the onset of their relationship.
He Told Her About His Gender Transition
He told her about his gender transition and what it involved. She accepted his truth with an open heart, assuring him that it didn’t affect her feelings for him. Patrick was overjoyed.
Honesty and Acceptance
So began their journey as a couple, filled with love, respect, and open communication.
They Built a Strong Bond
Over the span of three years, they built a strong bond grounded in mutual understanding and compatibility.
A Perfect Couple
Their sex life was great, they rarely fought, and their relationship, by all accounts, seemed perfect. Children were not part of their plans.
Signs of Trouble
As they rolled into the year, Patrick noticed a change in his girlfriend’s behavior. She seemed distant and secretive, like she was hiding something from him.
The Benefit of the Doubt
But considering the strength of their relationship, Patrick didn’t think much of it. He didn’t see any red flags that could threaten their relationship, so he decided to give her the benefit of the doubt.
The Shocking Revelation
One fateful day, however, completely shattered Patrick’s sense of security. It started as a routine day, with Patrick returning home from work to find his girlfriend waiting for him.
She Suggested They Needed to Talk
Her nervous smile and anxious demeanor were immediate giveaways that she was hiding something. She suggested they needed to talk.
A Distressing Sight
Patrick’s heart sank at that moment, fearing that a breakup was imminent.
Pregnancy Test Positivity
But what she revealed next was far more shocking than a breakup. His girlfriend pulled out a pregnancy test, and it was positive!
He Was in Pure Disbelief
Patrick’s initial reaction was one of pure disbelief, followed by a rush of excitement.
But his excitement quickly evaporated as he remembered the biological impossibility of him fathering a child! His transition had rendered him unable to conceive, a fact well-known to his girlfriend.
The Ultimate Betrayal
The look on his girlfriend’s face, as he confronted her with this reality, confirmed his worst fears. She had cheated on him. He was not the father.
A Heated Argument Followed
A heated argument followed, with Patrick’s world crumbling around him. His trust was gone, his heart was broken, and his relationship was in ruins.
A World Crumbling
In the heat of the moment, Patrick kicked his girlfriend out, demanded his spare key back, and blocked her from all means of communication.
Dealing With the Hurtful Reality
The love and trust that they had built over three years evaporated within minutes. Patrick was left alone, dealing with the hurtful reality of his girlfriend’s betrayal.
Sympathy and Advice for Patrick
Betrayed and hurting, Patrick was in a storm of emotions. Luckily the Reddit community was there for him. They offered their well wishes and sympathies, and the overwhelming sentiment was that his ex-girlfriend was ignorant.
Empathy and Sympathy
One user said, “Sorry you had to go through this. It’s amazing how dumb some people can be. You definitely dodged a bullet. It sounds like she would have done this to any man, which is reproductive fraud and makes her just generally a terrible person.”
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