A woman wonders if she went too far when she told her sister off about her hair. She thinks her sister is making a bid deal out of things, but her sister thinks she is being insensitive.
She Was Just Like Her Dad
OP’s youngest sister had very curly hair, just like their late father.
Taking All Morning
Sometimes it would take OP’s mom hours to comb through it, and all while the sister was crying and screaming.
She Was Obsessed With the Hair
Up until OP’s sister was 13, their mom insisted on washing and styling it.
If a visitor suggested OP’s sister’s hair should be trimmed, they were kicked out of the house immediately.
Coping With Grief
OP always thought that her mom was so obsessed with her sister’s hair because it reminded her of her dad’s hair.
Their Mom Passed Away
After OP’s mom died, the first thing her sister did was cut and dye her hair.
Sharon, Not Mom
OP’s sister sent her a picture with the caption “Sharon always said I was going to grow my hair down to my butt…Not anymore!”
Is This Her Way of Grieving?
OP thought this was her sister’s way of grieving their mother’s death. Now, OP doesn’t think that is the case.
How Upset Do You Think She’d Be?
OP’s sister constantly mentions her haircut and asks, “How upset do you think she would be if she saw my hair this short?”
She Didn’t Want to Hear It
OP’s sister was so proud of her new haircut, but OP told her to stop telling going on about it. It’s not as if it was some great achievement!
She’s No One’s Doll
OP’s sister got upset. She said she wasn’t supposed to be Sharon’s doll or a replacement for their dad.
Respect Me, or Else
OP’s sister said that if she couldn’t respect her, then she doesn’t need OP in her life.
Did She Go Too Far?
OP wants to know if she was wrong to minimize her sister’s trauma and her sister’s feeling of breaking free.
What do you think? Was OP being a jerk to her sister?
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